Have you ever thought that the idols and biases you have may reflect the ideal partner you strive for?And also the idols you intuitively seem to be attracted by, may possess the qualities (before you find out) that you look for, or are compatible with (blood type, horoscope?) Sometimes people you are intuitively attracted may have more to them than just a pretty face you claim to have randomly pointed out. I've found this with my biases.
They tend to be B blood types (AB or B) and O (since I'm an O). And horoscopes that are compatible with Cancer. Perhaps these are reflected in their personality and so when I watch footage of them, I get drawn to their personality??... it's a mystery.
Anyways, I tend to instinctively pick out idols that catch my eye who possess one or more of these compatibility points and then I start learning about them and ranking each idol choice one by one.
Previously mentioned in an entry "New Ultimate Bias" was a bias that fulfilled what a man should be, as opposed to a dream date, a man who has qualities that should make you want to be with them long term. Not just some guy who makes you laugh, makes you admire them or looks majorly hot; someone who has an unexplainable quality that is more than that.
Disclosing who the candidate possibly was.... I thought it was Kim Hyun Joong who would surprise me and rank top. Having watched two seasons of "We Got Married" I had really opened my eyes towards Kim Hyun Joong; his sensitivity, loyalty and his care. However, I've always had my qualms about what I thought of him... he was great... but something seemed off.
An incident came up several months later where he disclosed the time he called his girlfriend his ex's name, and thus got dumped. This really got to me and made me give up trying to make him a bias of mine. It's definitely a 'no-no'; never call your partner your ex's name!! Additionally, he was far far too introvert for me, and generally slow reacting. It would undoubtedly get on my nerves within no time.
Don't say I didn't give it a chance! Hehe
So it's back to just Saga and Key.
Yonghwa (CNBlue) is a strong candidate; a rocker, good looking, mischievous with a good sense of humour and also expressed his husband qualities in season 2 of We Got Married. Thus currently getting to rank in my top 3. He's a A blood type though.. so I wonder if I'll continue liking him for as long as I have with Saga and Key (who are AB and B respectively)
Thus, my current top 3 are; Saga, Key and Yonghwa...
A new candidate that I'm going to keep an eye on is Song Seunghyun from FT Island, who I've previously deemed as just a young baby face (he's great, but I never considered him).
He's growing up to be a fine young man and what made me become attracted was my recently bought DVD of the newest Concert Tour. And my, he oozes seduction on stage; subtle but it's there. Something that makes you forget his baby smile... something mature and more manly.
I've got my eyes on him... my newest victim?.. perhaps. He's a Blood type O..
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